This article will go straight to the bone, leaving behind unnecessary crap of the kind "stay there and wait" or "change for him/her to change" and all sorts of useless hopeless scenarios.
When this relationship or any similar kind of situation leads to a dead end, it means it's time to let go and move on. So what do you need to do to move on and let go easier?
1. The first and most important thing to do is to accept.
Acceptance of what it is, of what happened, of all your mistakes and your misinterpretations, of your Twins real character, without sugar coating, without allowing spiritual philosophies to harass your soul and destroy your dreams.
You have to accept it, NOT because you deserve some kind of punishment, but as a result of your own wrong thoughts, assumptions, vulnerabilities and so on, which led you to all these crazy relationships and that your so called "Twin" only helps you realize of all your wrong habitual patterns which create all these unwanted experiences.
So accept what happened and accept it as a lesson for your own sake so you will learn and move on.
2. It is YOU who created most of the dreamy scenarios about this relationship.
Yes, I will admit, it has some strong points which create illusionary attachments, like the Bubble Phase, the strong Push and Pull dynamics but most of the story is full of red flags which you tend to consciously ignore for various reasons.
The immensity of this relationship is based mostly on a few intense beautiful moments which work as the "glue" on this trap in order for it to work and deliver the Karma and the lesson.
There is nothing else and nothing more than someone egotistical who tries at every chance to use you and abuse you. You are the one who has the vulnerabilities and the soft spots which all these Narcs use to manipulate you. And this is for you to see what are you doing wrong so long, first in your intentions and choices, and second, in your judgment.
So stop sugar coating the one who lies to you, dishonors you, abandons you and go read a book about Narcissists. Or read one of my articles here! :) Allow your self to learn how to raise safe boundaries by growing a pair of b$^# and stop running after those who obviously don't give a f%$@ about you.
3. Start working on your new you today.
If this means that you have to start exercising or losing weight, then stop crying and mourning your lost "Twin" lover and get your a$ to the gym. And do it now before your excuses become even deeper and unreasonable.
Your life is not going to change if you are going to remain the same. Try to do all these different little things you were talking about all of your life instead of focusing on your lost lovers and moments.
Take that walk, take that class to learn your favorite instrument. go out meet people, meditate more, work on your aesthetics in the gym, with yoga, with swimming long distances, go out and do things and do it now and every day.
And remember. It might be only one Twin, but there are so many other people who will love you and support you and be by your side.
So make a choice. Abandonment? Or support, love and communication.
My fellow Lightworker. This is a war. A war by Shadows on Love and Romance. We will not fail. We are #MovingAhead.
All of Us. United. Powerful. Aligned. ONE.
I am Alex and this is my message to you. I am a genuine 33, moving ahead along with all of you.
by Alex "Angel" Ftoulis